Beyond Ashley Silva: The Evolution of Ashley Brittney, A Woman, A Vision, A Legacy of Her Own
From reality television standout to entertainment powerhouse, Ashley Brittney is proving that her greatest role is the one she's writing for herself!
Some women are introduced to the world through the spotlight, while others take that spotlight and build an empire of their own. Ashley Brittney, also known to many as Ashley Silva, is doing exactly that! As the wife of one of the country's most celebrated DJs, DJ Quicksilva, Ashley could have easily remained comfortable in the shadow of an already established entertainment powerhouse. Instead, she's been intentional about carving out her own lane, building her own brand, and reminding the world that while she may share a household with greatness, she possesses a greatness that is uniquely hers.
First capturing national attention as a standout personality on Oprah Winfrey's OWN Network hit reality series Love & Marriage: DC, Ashley quickly proved that her presence was bigger than reality television. With an undeniable personality, captivating authenticity, and a determination to be recognized for her own accomplishments, she's transformed her platform into a growing entertainment résumé. From rising media correspondent to producer, screenwriter, actress, and author, Ashley isn't waiting for Hollywood to give her a seat at the table, she's creating her own opportunities and writing the stories she wants the world to experience.
But beyond the cameras, scripts, interviews, and red carpets stands perhaps her most important role: MOTHERHOOD! Balancing family, marriage, ambition, and an evolving career, Ashley represents a generation of women who refuse to believe they must sacrifice one dream to fulfill another. Her journey is a testament to reinvention, resilience, and the power of understanding that your identity is not limited to the title's others have given you.
Ashley Brittney is no longer simply a familiar face from reality television. She's becoming a force in entertainment, a storyteller with purpose, and a woman determined to turn her name into a legacy. And while the world may have first met her as Ashley Silva, it's Ashley Brittney who's making sure they remember the woman behind the name.
She sat down with The Media Prince to tell HER story, reflect on her journey, and share her triumph in power, purpose, and becoming everything she was destined to be!
TMP: Many people first became familiar with you as Ashley Silva on OWN's Love & Marriage: DC. Today, you're embracing Ashley Brittney and an entirely new chapter of your career. Who is Ashley Brittney, and what does this evolution represent for you personally and professionally?
AB: I've always been Ashley Brittney. The girl with big dreams, a huge personality, and about a thousand creative ideas running through her head. I recently turned 41, and getting older has shown me that we don't have more time. I don't want to spend the next ten years talking about what I want to do. I want to actually DO IT. My book, Do That Sh!t, wasn't just a catchy title. It's a philosophy I'm holding myself accountable to. I'm proud to finally feel confident enough to reconnect with the parts of myself that may have taken a back seat while I was busy being everything to everybody else.
TMP: Reality television introduced audiences to a part of your world, but your creativity extends far beyond the screen. As a screenwriter, producer, actress, host, author, and media correspondent, what inspired you to expand your artistry, and which creative avenue has challenged you to grow the most?
AB: I actually feel like I'm getting back to my artistry. Entertainment has always been my first love. In high school, I studied theater through the International Baccalaureate program, and I went on to study broadcasting and psychology in college.
In 2011, I created IAMSUPERGORGE, an entertainment and lifestyle blog for millennial women. At the time, there weren't many platforms speaking to women like me. That same year, I launched SuperGorge Radio, where we interviewed celebrities, covered red carpets, and talked about everything from pop culture to marriage, motherhood, and relationships. I always joke that we invented podcasting. LOL. Then in 2017, I launched Fun Time Moms with my best friend Alicia. During filming the last weeks of Love & Marriage: DC in early 2023, I knew I had to figure out what was next for me. I knew I still wanted an entertainment career, but I also understood that nobody was going to knock on my door and hand me one. So I got back into acting classes, started auditioning again, and enrolled in a screenwriting program.
Acting requires a level of vulnerability that can be terrifying, especially when you're constantly putting yourself out there just to hear "no."But screenwriting humbled me. Having an amazing movie idea (or 56) in your head and turning it into a compelling 90-minute screenplay are two very different things. I've learned that being passionate about something doesn't automatically make you good at it, and having talent doesn't guarantee success. That's a hard pill to swallow, especially when you KNOW what you're capable of. But every day, I sit down, I write, I study, and I push myself to get better.
TMP: Your husband, DJ Quicksilva, has established an incredible legacy in radio and entertainment. As you continue creating your own identity and influence, how do you balance celebrating the empire you've built together while ensuring the world recognizes Ashley Brittney as a powerhouse in her own right?
AB: I think I'm at a place where I'm starting to feel comfortable celebrating it. In the past, I've felt like people tried to shame me for having a successful husband/marriage, as if his accomplishments somehow diminished who I am. But the reality is, we've built this life together. I've been there through every sacrifice and the wins, and I've made sacrifices of my own. So why shouldn't I be proud? I'm not necessarily looking to be labeled a "powerhouse" I simply want to be recognized for my own talent, and creativity.
TMP: You're a mother, wife, creative, entrepreneur, and entertainer. How do you navigate the expectations attached to these roles while still making room for your own dreams, ambitions, and personal identity?
AB: Navigating all of it has been hard as hell! For my entire adult life, being a wife and mother came first; my own dreams and ambitions took a back seat. I feel like I'm just now getting my big toe wet in my career at 41, while some people have been building theirs for decades. And I'd be lying if I said that wasn't frustrating sometimes.
But with my son now in college and my daughter preparing to enter high school, I finally feel like I have a little breathing room to focus on myself.
TMP: Being introduced to the world through reality television can sometimes mean audiences feel they already know your entire story. What misconceptions about you are you most excited to challenge as you take greater ownership of your narrative?
AB: I'm not going to get into the whole "y'all don't know everything" line that many reality personalities say, but there's a reason they do. I learned the lesson that reality and reality TV are two very different things. I'm also not on some mission to change anybody's opinion of me. The show ended almost four years ago, and what people saw was just a sliver of who I am. I got labeled the "mean girl," and you know what? At times I was. Sometimes it was a bit much, and other times it was well deserved. What I'm most grateful for are the people I've met since the show who have taken the time to get to know me without judging me based on an entertainment show. and proven those who did wrong.
TMP: As you transition into more behind-the-scenes creative roles, particularly screenwriting and producing, what kinds of stories are you passionate about bringing to life, and what do you believe is missing from today's entertainment landscape?
AB: I'm drawn to psychological thrillers, murder mysteries, complicated relationships, and characters who make you scream at the television. While I'm currently focused on scripted film and television, I'm also pitching a true crime series, particularly the lesser-known stories that deserve to be told.
I think what's missing from entertainment is more originality and nuance, especially when it comes to telling Black stories and representing women over 40. I want to see more stories about women who are still figuring life out, making mistakes, pursuing their dreams, navigating complicated relationships, and reinventing themselves. Because contrary to popular belief, life doesn't end at 40. Some of us are just getting started.
TMP: The DMV has produced some incredible cultural voices and entertainment trailblazers. How has being connected to this community influenced your ambition, your creativity, and the legacy you're working to establish?
AB: From Baltimore to DC to PG County, there is so much overlooked talent and untold stories. I just want the area to feel more collaborative in the scripted realm, so those voices and creators can thrive together and build something lasting.
TMP: Imagine someone mentioning Ashley Brittney ten years from now. What do you want your name to represent? What projects, accomplishments, or contributions will make you feel that you've truly created the legacy you envisioned?
AB: I want my name to represent a woman who bet on herself, even when the odds weren't necessarily in her favor, and even when she had to start over. I want to have created films and television shows that people genuinely love, built successful businesses, and opened doors for other creatives, especially those who may not have the traditional connections or opportunities in this industry. But more than anything, I want my children to look at my life and understand that there's no expiration date on their dreams.
HIGH LIGHTS
My Husband's Sister — My screenwriting debut, a Tubi Original film, now streaming on Tubi.
Power & Influence — A vertical drama series in which I star,as Amina available to watch now on URBAN ONE/ URBAN X/BOSSIP
Through the Eyes of a Hustler's Daughter — An upcoming film featuring me in an acting role, scheduled for release in January 2027.
— The Media Prince
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